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term='mindtraps'/><title type='text'>Comments on Lessons from a Recovering DoorMat: Chillin’ Without Guilt</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat.com/feeds/2141152777642457339/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6601826374403440725/2141152777642457339/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat.com/2009/04/chillin-without-guilt.html'/><author><name>Daylle Deanna Schwartz</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01445486103480238038</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://bp2.blogger.com/_W3h59OgJIAA/R72ztkZhu0I/AAAAAAAAAM8/3p3sjFl9A8g/S220/*+headshot+best+cropped+more.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' 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I've b...</title><content type='html'>I still feel guilty when I just do nothing. I've been a caretaker for everyone around me for most of my life and still find it hard to do stuff for me, including allowing myself to do nothing but relax. I am trying to change that. You're blog is a big motivation for me.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6601826374403440725/2141152777642457339/comments/default/8242183592986036177'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6601826374403440725/2141152777642457339/comments/default/8242183592986036177'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat.com/2009/04/chillin-without-guilt.html?showComment=1240175280000#c8242183592986036177' title=''/><author><name>JennYer</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat.com/2009/04/chillin-without-guilt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6601826374403440725.post-2141152777642457339' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6601826374403440725/posts/default/2141152777642457339' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-813477329'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6601826374403440725.post-7137973387018511890</id><published>2009-04-19T14:11:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-19T14:11:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>It really is important to remember to give yoursel...</title><content type='html'>It really is important to remember to give yourself time. I keep meaning to but don't. I'll try to do better.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6601826374403440725/2141152777642457339/comments/default/7137973387018511890'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6601826374403440725/2141152777642457339/comments/default/7137973387018511890'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat.com/2009/04/chillin-without-guilt.html?showComment=1240164660000#c7137973387018511890' title=''/><author><name>Pinkybow</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat.com/2009/04/chillin-without-guilt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6601826374403440725.post-2141152777642457339' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6601826374403440725/posts/default/2141152777642457339' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1280929496'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6601826374403440725.post-6691980328483724526</id><published>2009-04-18T16:35:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-18T16:35:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Good for you Genaata!

Glad you enjoyed the video ...</title><content type='html'>Good for you Genaata!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Glad you enjoyed the video Maxx.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6601826374403440725/2141152777642457339/comments/default/6691980328483724526'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6601826374403440725/2141152777642457339/comments/default/6691980328483724526'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat.com/2009/04/chillin-without-guilt.html?showComment=1240086900000#c6691980328483724526' title=''/><author><name>Daylle Deanna Schwartz</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01445486103480238038</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://bp2.blogger.com/_W3h59OgJIAA/R72ztkZhu0I/AAAAAAAAAM8/3p3sjFl9A8g/S220/*+headshot+best+cropped+more.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat.com/2009/04/chillin-without-guilt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6601826374403440725.post-2141152777642457339' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6601826374403440725/posts/default/2141152777642457339' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-2137293839'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6601826374403440725.post-4684676669201754296</id><published>2009-04-18T12:30:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-18T12:30:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Love the video!</title><content type='html'>Love the video!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6601826374403440725/2141152777642457339/comments/default/4684676669201754296'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6601826374403440725/2141152777642457339/comments/default/4684676669201754296'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat.com/2009/04/chillin-without-guilt.html?showComment=1240072200000#c4684676669201754296' title=''/><author><name>Maxx</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat.com/2009/04/chillin-without-guilt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6601826374403440725.post-2141152777642457339' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6601826374403440725/posts/default/2141152777642457339' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-293905844'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6601826374403440725.post-3086779271647935232</id><published>2009-04-18T10:50:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-18T10:50:00.000-04:00</updated><title type='text'>I tend to work more than most but plan to take thi...</title><content type='html'>I tend to work more than most but plan to take this weekend off and have fun--without guilt! Good reminder.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6601826374403440725/2141152777642457339/comments/default/3086779271647935232'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6601826374403440725/2141152777642457339/comments/default/3086779271647935232'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat.com/2009/04/chillin-without-guilt.html?showComment=1240066200000#c3086779271647935232' title=''/><author><name>Genaata</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.lessonsfromarecoveringdoormat.com/2009/04/chillin-without-guilt.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6601826374403440725.post-2141152777642457339' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6601826374403440725/posts/default/2141152777642457339' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-351156101'/></entry></feed>
